And there I was, sitting at the table with my dude and his spouse, the question arose, “When Was The Last Time Y’all Had Sex?”, her reply was, “Seven Years”.
Now in this situation, what would you do? Let’s go back a little bit. Back in the day, there was a Soldier married to another Soldier. Sex life was great when they were dating, then married and change in duty station, and things changed. They were stationed in a “High” uptempo, post, and ran four miles every day for Physical Fitness Training. She would always fall out. Her evaluation and sex made it hard for her to run. So their sex life dwindled, from twice a week to twice a month, to once a month then none for a year. This continued for a while.
Now here’s where things went south. The husband started watching porn to please himself, I mean what are the alternatives to no sex? This went on for a while, but then he got tired of artificial (AI) LOL, sex and started to venture out.
Now let’s get back to the “No Sex” for seven years. It seemed as if the wife was proud of this and the husband was miserable. She did not want him to watch porn either.
What is a man to do? The wife doesn’t work, husband works to support the Family. There’s more to the story, but I will leave it there.
So what about porn? Whether or not it is okay for a husband to watch porn is a complex question that depends on a number of factors, including the couple’s individual values, their relationship, and their individual comfort levels.
Here are some of the benefits of sex in a marriage:
- Physical pleasure. Sex can be a great way to relax and de-stress. It can also release endorphins, which have mood-boosting effects.
- Emotional intimacy. Sex can help couples feel closer and more connected to each other. It can also be a way to express love and affection.
- Sense of connection. Sex can help couples feel connected on a physical and emotional level. It can also be a way to bond and build trust.
We already know, there is “NO” pleasure or emotional intimacy.
What about “Sense of Connection?” are they connected
This is a “NO WIN” situation, so what if the husband ventures out… Then he is garbage and should be ashamed of himself.
What are your thoughts?
